Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

The Permissive Myth – Episode 012

People seem to think if you a Permissive parent (you never say no), if aren’t authoritarian by punishing your children to learn, putting them in timeouts and giving them a small “tap” to learn. How will they ever learn without a good dose of fear and adult rule? It is actually the “Authoritative” ( not be confused with authoritarian) style of…

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Behaviour, Co sleeping, Episodes

The Sleep Myth – Episode 011

The sleep myth everyone has one. Let’s clear it up now. Babies are NOT designed to sleep through the night. If fact it’s dangerous for your young baby to sleep that deeply. Know that even the experts have children who don’t sleep through the night. I promise you because I teach positive, gentle sleep techniques and I’ve had a terrible…

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Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

Nature, Nurture Myth – Episode 008

A new year brings new goals and exciting new adventures. It’s most popular of the year for people to focus on setting goals of self-development and a great time to draw a line under the previous 12 months. With it though comes the return to reality, the change from the excitement of the break over the festival holidays back to…

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Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

The Hippy Myth – Episode 007

It wasn’t so long ago a close friend said not to turn into a hippy as they were “weird”. Looking back now I actually feel sorry for that friend, that she was so wrapped up in consumerism that she saw love, compassion, living a chemical free, meat-free life and looking after my children in an instinctive way, weird. In fact, it…

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Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

The Respect Myth – Episode 005

How do we teach our children to respect their elders? Our children are the most vulnerable of society and yet somehow they become the most disrespected of the generations. If we want our children to respect us, aren’t we responsible for teaching them what respect is? Don’t we have to model it to be able to achieve that? Or is really…

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Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

The Reception Years Myth Episode 003

Are children in reception years really playing too much? Ofsted seems to think they are. Should we really expect our 5 years to be able to read and write? or is it time we start looking at a more progressive model similar to the Scandinavians. Telegraphy article mentioned  Alfie Kohn reading suggestion  Ken Robinson YouTube  Intro: Bensound.com

Behaviour, Episodes, Parenting

The Christmas Myth – Episode 002

Should we be present rather than buying presents? Is it right to tell our children Santa is real? Should the lead-up Christmas be all about bribes and threats? and do we need to remember how hard it really is for children at Christmas? Musing’s about the upcoming festive period. Kindest Elves Article mentioned by G.Monbiot Intro music :Bensound.com

Behaviour, Blog, Parenting

As seen in the Matrix.

Having just spent some time watching BBC documentaries on the planet, I feel tears roll down my face. When as a human race did we go so wrong ? I struggle to understand how we see our species continuing, as we pursue a life so opposing to Mother Nature. My partner reminds me all to well of the matrix quote…

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